my 2c on opt-in vs opt-out:
both are bad in the case of things like telemetry.
If you're going to do something that the user might want to make an important decision about (such as their privacy), you should of course have them opt-in, but opt-in with default-to-no means that something important might not happen, and enablement of that feature will be too low to make it useful. But of course, if you just enable them and yolo, then you're.... well, you're probably violating some laws, tbh, so I'll leave it at that.
I want to have a special term for making opting decisions that doesn't imply defaults, such as "active opt-in" or something, where the application requires that you make a decision either way, during setup, if it's going to do things like telemetry.
Because, in all seriousness, telemetry is useful, and when privacy is respected, it genuinely helps makes products better, but opt-out is gross af, and opt-in won't get you the data you need.
This is what I decided to do with #orogene, btw. It sends anonymized crash reports, but you're prompted the first time you launch orogene and both options are presented equally and you can't just skip this (well, you technically can if you're in a non-interactive environment, where we'll default to no telemetry)
